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Joint Child Custody and Domestic Violence

Courts may award custody solely to one parent or jointly to both parents. The trend seems to be toward joint custody awards by some Courts. Joint Custody of children between parents in abusive relationships has been shown to be problematic.


Frequently Asked Questions Regarding Joint Child Custody and Domestic Violence:

  • What is the Illinois Law on Joint Custody?

  • Is Joint Custody and Acceptable Option if there has been Domestic Violence in the family?

  • What does a Joint Custody Order by the Court Mean?

  • Does Joint Custody mean that the children will live 50% of the time with each parent?

  • What if Joint Custody is Ordered and the Abusive Parent is Violent toward you When the Child is being Exchanged or at other times?
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    What Is the Illinois Law on Joint Custody?

    There is not a presumption for Joint Custody in Illinois Custody law. But Illinois custody law does state a presumption "for maximum involvement with the child" by both parents. There appears to be a trend in Court toward ordering Joint Custody in child custody cases in some areas of the country. In Domestic Violence cases, it is very problematic.

    Click here to read the Illinois law regarding Joint Custody.

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    Is Joint Custody an Acceptable Option if there has been Domestic Violence in the family?

    The effect of Joint Custody on the children in Domestic Violence situations can be a very negative one. Researchers have found that children who live under Joint Custody Orders and are being raised in high conflict families are more emotionally troubled and behaviorally disturbed than those in sole custody.

    Joint Custody of a child assumes that the parents will share decisions about the influences in the child's everyday life, including health, education, and religious choices. The more opportunity there is for interaction between the parents in a domestic violence, the more likelihood of continued conflict. Just like mandatory mediation or court ordered couples counseling, Joint Custody gives the Abuser a court sanction opportunity to continue to contact and abuse the victim and child. Under these circumstances, Joint Custody endangers the abused parent because now there is a court obligation to discuss and work with the abusive parent, pursuant to the Joint Custody Order. Of course, any resulting violence to the parent has serious consequences for the child also.

    The court must consider the Best Interest of the Child when ordering Joint Custody, including all relevant factors, such as the physical violence or threat of physical violence by the child's potential custodial parent and the occurrence of ongoing abuse. These factors can be considered also if the Court is asked by the Abuser to consider ordering Joint Custody. Hopefully a Judge can see it would not be in the best interest of the child.

    When one of the parent's conduct includes family violence with a pattern of power and control over the other parent, there is no reason for the Court to assume that future conduct by the parents will shift into a healthy co-parenting relationship after a Court order is issued.

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    What does a Joint Custody Order by the Court Mean?

    Joint Custody awards assume that the parents will share decisions about the major and minor influences to the child's life. It is a Court Order that means neither parent has superior custody rights over the other parent.

    There is an open debate regarding whether Joint Custody between parents is a positive arrangement for children. If Joint Custody arrangements allow for more time and opportunity for the parents to continue to argue about their differences in front of the children, obviously children are negatively affected.

    Sometimes child support can still be ordered in a joint custody decision from the parent who spends less time caring for the child.

    Generally the Court orders one of two types of Joint Custody:

    • Joint Physical Custody is when the Judge orders the children to divide their living arrangements between the two parents. The Illinois Joint Parenting Agreement that the Judge approves states the amount of time the children spend during the week living with each parent.

      For example, the Joint Custody Order might state the children should spend every other month, every other weekend, or part of the summer with each parent.

    • Joint Legal Custody usually looks like a sole custody order with the children basically living with one parent, and the other parent has "visitation". This type of Joint Custody does not presume equal parenting time between the parents.

      There is one HUGE difference between this type of custody and a sole custody order. A Joint Legal Custody Order means neither parent has superior custody rights over the other parent.

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    Does Joint Custody mean that the children will live 50% of the time with each parent?

    No, not necessarily. This is a common misunderstanding about Joint Custody. Joint Custody does not necessarily imply or presume equal parenting time between the parents.

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    What if Joint Custody is Ordered and the Abusive Parent is Violent toward You When the Child is being Exchanged or at other times?

    The abuse needs to be brought to the attention of the Court immediately. You may need to obtain an Order of Protection, and you should ask the Court to modify the Joint Custody Order to protect you and your children. Visitation rights with the child can be restricted if the abusive parent's behavior seriously endangers the child's physical, mental, moral or emotional health, and you can request the Court to award you sole custody. You should consult with your Attorney if this is happening to you, and contact your closest Domestic Violence Program.

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