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Courts may award custody solely to one parent or jointly
to both parents. The trend seems to be toward joint
custody awards by some Courts. Joint Custody of children between
parents in abusive relationships has been shown to be problematic.
Frequently Asked Questions Regarding
Joint Child Custody and Domestic Violence:
What is the Illinois Law on Joint Custody?
Is Joint Custody and Acceptable Option if
there has been Domestic Violence in the family?
What does a Joint Custody Order by the Court Mean?
Does Joint Custody mean that the children
will live 50% of the time with each parent?
What if Joint Custody is Ordered and the
Abusive Parent is Violent toward you When the Child is being
Exchanged or at other times?
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What Is the Illinois Law on Joint Custody?
There is not a
presumption for Joint Custody in Illinois Custody law. But Illinois
custody law does state a presumption "for maximum involvement with
the child" by both parents. There appears to be a trend
in Court toward ordering Joint Custody in child custody cases in some areas
of the country. In Domestic Violence cases, it is very problematic.
Click here to read the Illinois law
regarding
Joint Custody.
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Is Joint Custody an Acceptable Option if there has been Domestic Violence in the family?
The effect of Joint Custody on the children
in Domestic Violence situations can be a very negative one.
Researchers have found that children who live under Joint Custody
Orders and are being raised in high conflict families are more
emotionally troubled and behaviorally disturbed than those in sole
custody.
Joint Custody of a child assumes that the parents will share
decisions about the influences in the child's everyday life,
including health, education, and religious choices. The more
opportunity there is for interaction between the parents in a
domestic violence, the more likelihood of continued conflict. Just
like mandatory mediation or court ordered couples counseling, Joint
Custody gives the Abuser a court sanction opportunity to continue to
contact and abuse the victim and child. Under these circumstances,
Joint Custody endangers the abused parent because now there is a
court obligation to discuss and work with the abusive parent,
pursuant to the Joint Custody Order. Of course, any resulting
violence to the parent has serious consequences for the child also.
The court must consider the
Best Interest of the Child
when ordering Joint Custody, including all relevant factors, such as the
physical violence or threat of physical violence by the child's
potential custodial parent and the occurrence of ongoing abuse.
These factors can be considered also if the Court is asked by the
Abuser to consider ordering Joint Custody. Hopefully a Judge can see
it would not be in the best interest of the child.
When one of the parent's conduct includes family violence with a pattern
of power and control over the other parent, there is no reason for the Court to
assume that future conduct by the parents will shift into a healthy co-parenting
relationship after a Court order is issued.
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What does a Joint Custody Order by the Court Mean?
Joint Custody awards assume that the parents will share decisions about the major
and minor influences to the child's life. It is a Court Order that means neither parent
has superior custody rights over the other parent.
There is an open debate regarding whether Joint Custody between parents is a
positive arrangement for children. If Joint Custody arrangements allow for more
time and opportunity for the parents to continue to argue about their differences
in front of the children, obviously children are negatively affected.
Sometimes child support can still be ordered in a joint custody decision
from the parent who spends less time caring for the child.
Generally the Court orders one of two types of Joint Custody:
- Joint Physical Custody is when the Judge orders the children to
divide their living arrangements between the two parents. The Illinois
Joint Parenting Agreement that the Judge approves states the amount of
time the children spend during the week living with each parent.
For example, the Joint Custody Order might state the children should
spend every other month, every other weekend, or part of the summer
with each parent.
- Joint Legal Custody usually looks like a sole custody order with
the children basically living with one parent, and the other parent
has "visitation". This type of Joint Custody does not presume equal
parenting time between the parents.
There is one HUGE difference between this
type of custody and a sole custody order. A Joint Legal Custody
Order means neither parent has superior custody rights over the
other parent.
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Does Joint Custody mean that the children will live 50%
of the time with each parent?
No, not necessarily. This is a common
misunderstanding about Joint Custody. Joint Custody does not
necessarily imply or presume
equal parenting time between the parents.
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What if Joint Custody is Ordered and the Abusive Parent is Violent toward You When the Child is being Exchanged or at other times?
The abuse needs to be brought to the attention of the Court immediately.
You may need to obtain an Order of Protection, and you should ask the Court
to modify the Joint Custody Order to protect you and your children. Visitation
rights with the child can be restricted if the abusive parent's behavior
seriously endangers the child's physical, mental, moral or emotional health,
and you can request the Court to award you sole custody. You should consult
with your Attorney if this is happening to you, and contact your closest
Domestic Violence Program.
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