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Child Custody in Divorce or Paternity (Unmarried Parents)

Frequently Asked Questions on Child Custody in Divorce or Paternity (Unmarried Parents):

  • What Legal Standards Does the Illinois Court Have to Consider When I Ask for Custody of My Child in a Divorce or Paternity Case?

  • In Illinois What Does the Legal Term "Best Interest of the Child" Mean in a Court,and Where is Domestic Violence Included?

  • Frequently Asked Questions on Modification of Child Custody

  • How Hard is it to Have an Illinois Court Change Custody to the Other Parent Within Two Years of a Final Custody Decree?

  • Is it Helpful for Domestic Violence Victims to be Familiar with Illinois Custody Law regarding Changing Child Custody?
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    What Legal Standards Does the Illinois Court Have to Consider When I Ask for Custody of My Child in a Divorce or Paternity Case?

    Whether a child has been born during a marriage or to unmarried parents, there are certain legal standards that an Illinois Court must take into account when deciding Child Custody. Primarily the Court must decide which parent is better for the child to live with based on a "best interest of the child" legal standard.

    Domestic Violence is a factor in Illinois law, as well as other factors, in determining "the best interest of the child".

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    In Illinois What Does the Legal Term "Best Interest of the Child"

    Mean in a Court, and Where is  Domestic Violence Included?

    Domestic Violence is one of several factors that an Illinois Court must consider when deciding which parent should be awarded custody. Of course, the Court can only consider DV if the victim's attorney places evidence regarding the abuse on the court record.

    The Court must consider the following factors in every child custody decision under Illinois law regarding the "best interest of the child".

    • The wishes of the child's parents as to custody;
    • The wishes of the child as to custody;
    • The interaction of the child and each parent, siblings, or any other person who may significantly affect the child;
    • The child's adjustment to the home, school, and community;
    • The mental and physical health of all persons involved;
    • The physical violence or threat of violence by the child's potential custodian, whether directed at the child or another person;
    • The occurrence of ongoing abuse as defined in the Illinois domestic violence Act, whether directed at the child or another person;
    • The willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage a close, continuing relationship between the other parent and the child.

    View the Illinois Statute on  Best Interest of the Child.

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    How Hard is it to Have an Illinois Court Change Custody to the Other Parent Within Two Years of a Final Custody Decree?

    After a court makes a Child Custody decision, Illinois law discourages the parents from attempting to re-litigate the Custody case within two years. A Victim who voluntarily gives up custody of the children or loses in a custody fight will have a difficult time attempting to have the court make a new decision within 2 years of the initial custody order.

    The Illinois law states that "no motion to modify a custody judgment may be made earlier than 2 years after its date, unless the court permits it to be made on the basis of affidavits that there is reason to believe the child's present environment may endanger seriously his physical, mental, moral, or emotional health." (750 ILCS 5/6109a)

    View the Illinois Statute on  Modification of Child Custody.

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    Is it Helpful for Domestic Violence Victims to be Familiar with Illinois Custody Law regarding Changing Child Custody?

    It is clear that the Illinois law contemplates a parent has to prove an emergency exception to the two-year waiting period after a final Custody order, prior to a parent attempting to have the Court re-hear the case again. The Court will not hear any new evidence and make a new determination regarding Custody within the two- year period, unless it finds serious endangerment to the child exists.

    It is not uncommon for an Abuser to convince a Victim that if she will only give up custody of the child in Court, the Abuser will stop the abuse and not further harm her or the child. The Abuser may even tell her that if she signs legal custody over to him, he will allow her to stay in the home and raise the child, or allow the child to live with her. If the Victim does agree in Court that the Abuser be given Permanent Legal Custody, it is very difficult within two years to have the Court rehear the custody decision, after the Abuser kicks her out of the house and keeps the child.

    Victims should immediately seek an Attorney who is experienced in domestic violence if they find themselves in this situation.

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